Monday, October 24, 2005

Dating and Gaming

Dating, like every other game that people play- requires practice and efforts for mastery.
Do not hesitate in dating, it is time well spent.
For a successfull date, I will give a few tips:

1. Background check
If you know him from workplace, find out where he lives or comes from.
If you know him from a friend, ask the friend about his hobby.
If you know him in a place, find out if he's a regular (i advise not to date people you meet in pubs and clubs)

2. Ice breaker
The background check is for ice breaker, something to start the conversation with. Do not ask sensitive issues like age or salary. Just show how interested you are to know him/her.

3. Places to go
Do not go for romantic candle light dinner for your first date. If your date turns out to sooooo boring, there is no way for you to run away. Dont go to theatres, you are there for a date, you want to know your date.
Try going to public places, or do sports. In case the date fails, you can still have fun with the activities, or....with other people that you met.

4. Courtesy
Manner is important. Do not ditch your date. Do not be rude to your date. Do not have a fight on who's paying. You never know where the road may wind up. Maintain good relationship.

5. Outfit
No matter what happens, wear something comfortable. People like to see other people that is comfortable in their own skin. Don't dress like Paris Hilton- we want to hang out with people that is similar with us- but if you are similar to Paris Hilton, I guess that's ok as long as you are comfortable.

Now, this is only a general first date tips, further developments and advice will be determined on a case per case basis. Anyways, all you players and daters- GOOD LUCK!!!

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